I Can!

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As the saying goes, 'hurt people, hurt people'! But you have the choice to not allow them to keep hurting you. I have to continue to let go and release things that I can't control and be okay with that. I can't make anybody come to me if they have a problem with me, I can’t make anybody do their work, get help, or see something from my perspective. I can’t make anybody like me, love me, or accept me. What I can I do and what I am doing is becoming the vision I want to see. I can like, love, and accept myself. I can forgive myself for any wrongdoings I have done in my life. I can be my own best friend, and I can put my time into those people who also feel this way about me and accept me because of and in spite of myself. I thank God for helping me on this journey of learning to be real and true to myself; though it can be messy and painful, it ends up being a beautiful mess and I am okay with that. I am okay with me, and it is a great feeling this year!

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